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Secrets about fathers

First my brother died, then Dad two years later, and I nursed them both. At the end Dad asked, is your…

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Secrets about mothers

Call me by my first name, my mother asked in her last coherent request, not Mom, just once, so she could hear…

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Secrets about marriage

I grieve my marriage more than I grieved my divorce, because the divorce was an event and the marriage was a…

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Secrets about grief

Guilt is a chore chart. My sister flew home for the dying; I stayed three time zones away and paid for…

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Secrets about drinking and getting sober

We ended it because of my drinking and I got sober two years later and I've stayed sober eleven years, and…

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Secrets about illness and the body

During his last hospital stay, my father asked me to sneak him real coffee. I said no, doctor's orders. He…

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Secrets about faith and doubt

I found faith and then lost my son and then lost the faith, in that order, and people in the church looked at…

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Secrets about love

I loved a man who loved someone else openly and I stayed convinced I could win, and I never did, and you…

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Secrets about regret

Dad had a whole second tackle box under the boat seat. Cigarettes, a flask, a photo of a woman in a yellow…

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Secrets about work

My boss and I have a thing that isn't a thing. I got the promotion on my own merit — I know I did, I've…

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Secrets about money

I finally paid off the debt of my crossing, the money borrowed to get here, the years of scrimping, and I…

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Secrets between siblings

I loved my sister's best friend all through our twenties and never said it because my sister warned me off,…

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Secrets parents keep

We were seventeen on a bridge and carved our initials, and I drove my own kids past it last summer and my…

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Secrets about friendship

I loved a man in my friend group for years and watched him date two of my closest friends in turn, and I…

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Secrets from school and growing up

My students think I've been teaching high school English for twenty years because I love Dickens. The real…

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Secrets about strangers and small kindnesses

I met a woman at a bus stop who was from three villages over from where my mother was born, and we talked for…

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Secrets about home and leaving it

He laughed at my accent once, in 2004, so I sanded it off. He's three states away with somebody new. The…

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Secrets about growing older

Grandpa didn't retire. The bank took the farm, and the family agreed, without ever saying it out loud, to use…

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Secrets about being alone

I found a lump this year and told no one, scheduled everything myself, drove myself, sat in the beige rooms…

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